Blogging for Dummies!

Yes, That's me!!

Ok, I could really use this book!! I am either really blonde(which I am, kinda),  I'm just slow, too busy or too impatient. I absolutely love blogging, and reading blogs. But would really like to do all the fun things and the little add-ons also. I admit I am new to all of this. There are so many great blogs out there and I want to have one. A really great blog! So, here are my bumps in the blogging road, and questions I have.
1. How do I list all the blog buttons to show off my favorite blogs?
2. How do I join all the give-aways and blog hops? (I'm really interested in this)
3. How do you get a "chat/comment" box in the side bar?
4. Are they worth it?
5.How do I add a slide show without having to add the whole "album"? Just a few specific pics.
6.What is the best site to use to get paid for blogging? (for in the future, possibly)
7. And what's up with my Shelfari? I added the code, but it just shows a link and when you click it, it goes to the home page!(not my list of books)
Wow! I really need help! Bare with me ladies, I really am trying to get the hang of this.